5 WAYS TO MEET MEN WITHOUT ONLINE DATING
Is your energy sending the right signals when you’re out in the world? Perhaps you’re light is off and you don’t even realise it…
You might be thinking I am available, my light is on and I still never meet any guys outside of Bumble!
The kind of availability I’m talking about is energetic.
Your energy is putting yourself out there - it radiates out from the inside and sends all sorts of signals!
TRY THESE 5 STRATEGIES OUTSIDE OF ONLINE DATING
1. Go out on your own
Don’t get caught in the trap of thinking that you can only go out with your single friends.
In fact this will repel men even more if you and your friends don’t have the right energetic vibration together.
Men can smell desperation a mile off, so pluck up the courage and do things on your own instead.
Try a Meet Up or other activities that you’re interested in (if possible given the current restrictions).
2. Smile!
Smiling welcomes people in and lets them know you’re happy to have a chat. Even if it’s just when you go to get groceries or take out the bin. Don’t be afraid to connect with people, even if it is at a distance. Worst case scenario is that he only smiles back!
3. Open body language
Most communication (in person) that we’re having is actually non-verbal. We’re reading each other all the time with the feeling we get from someone's body language.
Online, this is more difficult to gage and requires a little more effort to convey.
Be mindful of your body language - do you have your arms crossed over your body, are you making eye contact, do you feel like you’d rather not be ‘seen’ when you’re out or talking to people? All of these act as barriers and block us connecting with others.
4. Be present
Be fully aware of your thoughts as much as possible. Are you looking at your phone, thinking about what you’re going to do next all while talking to someone and waiting for your coffee? This scatters your energy and can put you into overwhelm, blocking the connection.
Your presence, which is your undivided attention, is what others will feel and it instantly increases the connection with anyone you’re talking to.
5. Start Conversation
After you’ve smiled, why not introduce yourself?
Hi I’m xxx, it’s nice to meet you.
Men are usually so taken aback by your confidence that they immediately take notice and reciprocate.
It’s ok as women to take the lead and step forward letting a man know you’re interested. Holding back too much or waiting for him to initiate everything can result in missed opportunities.
Don’t worry about the ‘what if’s’ - you’ll never know unless you give it a go!
I hope these tips help you in having a new connection anywhere, anytime, all without using online dating.
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